How important it is to resolve misunderstanding that creeps between two close friends, two close acquaintances, between family members??? It's very important to resolve the conflict and start afresh without carrying any grudges. What if we are ready for the resolution but the other person is not??? I mean what if the other person is adamant and is not willing to step forward and say - "chalo, beet gayi so baat gayi", "let bygones be bygones". What should one do under such circumstances? To top it all, what should one do if the root of the problem is a very trivial matter? All that has occurred between the two individuals is a dialogue on a topic, on which they share different views, does this situation call for absolute indifference and cold behaviour? Or is it a matter that has to be stretched so much as that each member of the family and even the outsider should know??? This is for the first time, when I am facing procrastination - To discuss or not to discuss. I believe in discussing and forgetting things. Discuss it once and for all and put a blanket over it. For I believe in living each moment of life. I believe in enjoying every minute. Why to waste time on things that are irrelevant?
Now, why I am thinking of not discussing. The reason is very simple. The person who can take not so important topic seriously and can go on and on discussing it with everybody left, right, centre, can never ever have brains to understand the importance of discussing the matter and shutting it forever. Well still I want to break the ice and discuss. Waiting for the right time. I know time is never wrong to discuss the right thing, but in this case the temperament of the person matters a lot and hence, the time.
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